I was the quintessential self-sabotage queen, carrying with me a trail of addictions, failed relationships, divorce, alcoholism, poor work performance which led to dismissal, anger, jealousy and rage - none of which I believed was my fault at the time.
My life has been one of incredible highs, and terrible lows. Born into an abusive household there was never a time growing up when I wasn't exposed to domestic violence, it was the 'norm' in my house, and to escape the sound of my dad shouting and mum crying I would seek refuge in shop doorways. Therefore it was no surprise when I became involved in crime, the only shocking part - I was only 9 years old, and 12 when I first appeared in Court.
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From a very young age I felt different, I felt like I didn't fit in or belong anywhere. I struggled interacting with people, building, developing and maintaining relationships, and because of this I was always looking to escape my reality. I began experimenting with drugs as I was transitioning from Junior school to high school (aged 10/11) and that progressed throughout my school years. As my addictions increased my interest in school decreased and by 16 I had been removed from school 18 times, and arrested 6 times.
Its safe to say I was on a path that was only headed one way - To Prison and it did.
When you've been exposed to narcissistic and abusive relationships from a very young age, its natural to assume that is what love is. You're conditioned to believe that is just how relationships are. As I grew older, I was attracted to what I knew as familiar. Abusive, violent and narcissistic men.!!
As a result of being in those relationships I have been hit with a hammer, had my jaw broken more than once, had countless blackeyes, I've been dragged out of my bed asleep and a weight thrown at my head, I've had a screwdriver rammed into my cheek, had cigarettes butts stubbed out on my arm, and been punched roughly 15 times in the head whilst driving on the motorway. It's safe to say I have experienced pain from someone I believe loved me.
When I was released from prison I still felt lost, I have been an angry rebel, been an addict, been a drunk, been to prison and still I felt like I was homeless inside. Who is Louize? It was then I started a journey of self discovery. I knew finding a job would be hard, so I worked on my appearance and how I spoke, I was determined to work as I had a 2 year old counting on me, and I couldn't let her down again. I studied everything, Fashion, Sales, Marketing, Counselling, Shopper Psychology, Criminal Psychology, Communication Across Culture (which I later learnt was a coping mechanism)
Fast forward 10 years, I graduated University with a Law Degree, had an incredible job. I achieved so much in that decade, but still never felt like I fitted in.
Still feeling worthless.
Still People pleasing.
On the outside I looked ok, I had completely turned my life around, I had a family, a nice house, a good job, holidayed every year, but Inside I was in a world of pain and fighting the biggest demons.
I hit the lowest point of my adult life in my mid 30s. I was back in my 'emotional home' of self loathing and self destruct. My marriage had deteriorated, I had an affair with a violent Narcissist who destroyed me physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. I began drinking heavily, taking drugs (occasionally) fell behind in my job and hated who I was. I was living in a world more connected than ever, yet was so disconnected. Turning 40 was a turning point, My whole world turned upside down over night and the blows kept coming for 2.5 years and then I decided enough was enough.!!
Thank you for sticking with me and reading this far.
Now it's time to introduce you to the real and authentic Louize Clark.
SHE IS FOUND.
Today, I am an extremely happy, blessed and grateful woman who has processed all of her trauma.
I see the beauty in my adversities, and know its made me into the person I am today, and I Love her.
Professionally I'm an Internationally recognised business and life strategist, qualified in Law, International HR Management, Sales, Marketing, NLP, CBT, and Emotional Intelligence, I own a construction training company, an AI training company and specialise in Communication across cultures within business.
My past taught me more about people than I could ever learn from a book, I am extremely fortunate that I Crew for Tony Robbins and that has allowed me to expand on my understanding of people, and i have now worked with over 2000 people from 120 countries.
Not bad for someone who was told she would never amount to anything eh.!
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